#6 One True Love

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So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her.

– Genesis 19:20

It may be far-fetched, but the fanciful thought that “one true love” exists for each of us is certainly appealing. Television, movies, and anime tell us that perhaps there is such a thing, and in our heart of hearts, we may believe it, too.

We all desire a fulfilling love. Some of us know this inclination intimately, as our thoughts and actions frequently stray toward seeking affection. Others may already have devoted support and not even comprehend that they’ll feel incomplete if they lost such affection.

We are designed to love – to give it and to receive it. Our relationships, imperfect as they are, demonstrate as much. They also suggest something splendid: although the love we experience is faulty, a perfect, pure, and never-failing love lies in wait for us.  It’s all ours – we only need surrender to it.

Pray | Ask to experience God’s love, either more fully, if you’re a believer, or in some shape or manner, if you are not

Read | Meditate on these verses this week: John 15:9-17Matthew 6:24 / 1 John 3:18 / Proverbs 17:17 / Psalms 63:3

Act | Reflect on the role that the desire for love plays in your life, and how that relates to your relationship with God

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#5 Break Up

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But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

– Romans 5:8

Break-ups can be devastating. They take time and support to get through, and in all honesty, there are some relationships we never get over.

And as with grieving, we might pass through emotional stages after a split, including guilt.  Why did she dump me?  What did I do?  What’s wrong with me?

Those feelings speak to something dreadfully honest within us – that we feel something is wrong.  Our exes, who knew us as well as anyone, saw into our very hearts, and they ran away.

There’s someone else, too, that sees our hearts – that knows them better than any boyfriend, better than we even know our own hearts.  He sees all of our faults, insecurities, and selfishness, and still speaks this to us: “I’m never leaving you.”

This the one to whom we can always turn – who will never leave or “break up” with us. There’s no better lover.

Pray | Ask God to reveal his forgiving and loving character to you

Read | Meditate on these verses this week: Jeremiah 17:9 / Romans 5:6-8 / Jeremiah 7:21-26 / Romans 5:20-21 / Ephesians 2:8-9

Act | Purposely reach out to someone who may have hurt you, understanding that you, too, own many faults

#2 Returning Love

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You took the broken pieces, and made them whole.

For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God

– Ephesians 2:8

Romantic relationships sometimes feel like purchasing a product.  If the item is broken, or not as advertised, or fails to live up to our expectations in any way, we return it and get our money back.  When a problem occurs during dating, we might consider “returning” our mate and starting again.  The more difficult the issue or the more issues there are, the more likely we are to call it quits and say, “this transaction just didn’t work out.”

Unfortunately, this idea extends beyond dating.  Cohabitation, marriage, friendship, and even family can break down when people disappoint, hurt, and otherwise fail to meet expectations.  And what happens when we’re treated like a purchase?  When we’re dumped, passed over for a promotion, or ignored by friends, as if we don’t matter?  It’s painful to be on the receiving end because it makes us feel like a defective product.  Who could love me?

Real love is not a transaction.  It’s not “I’ll give you this if you give me that.”  Instead, it’s about loving a person for who they are, no matter the circumstances and at great personal expense.  Scripture tells us that this is how God approaches His relationship with us.  Even though we failed Him, over and over again, He loves us to the utmost expense, to the point where He came to die in our place.  God bought us, defects and all, but decided this: He’ll keep and treasure us forever.

Pray | Tell God about the broken relationships in your life and thank him for his enduring love for you
Read | Read and meditate on these verses this week: Zephaniah 3:14-17 / Psalms 86:15 / Romans 8:37-39 / Luke 12:6-7 / Ephesians 2:4-10
Act | Take a step toward healing a broken relationship this week through a message, phone call, or something more

#1 Imperfect Love

 

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we are bits and pieces of imperfect love

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

– Romans 8:38-39

A happy nervousness.  An electric energy.  Non-stop smiling.  All relationships start the same way, with a forever kind of hopefulness.  But ultimately, they almost all devolve into something unrecognizable, transformed by hurt, pain, anger, or disinterest.

How have you acted in your relationships with others?  When things go awry, do you blame them?  Or do you share some of the fault?

Because we’re human, because we’re imperfect, our relationships are all destined to contain some brokenness.  We disappoint those we’re closest to, again and again and again.  But there is one model of perfect love, of an epic kind of love that never fails, for this lover will never stop reaching out to us and will always be there to put together the bits and pieces of our imperfect selves.  And his love is everything we need.

Pray | Tell God about the kind of love you seek – from a bf/gf, parents, or friends – and then honestly talk to him about how well you’ve loved him
Read | Read and meditates on these verses this week: Romans 8:38-39 / I Corinthians 13:4-8 / I Peter 4:8 / I John 4:16-18 / Deuteronomy 10:12
Act | Work on forgiving others for the hurt they’ve caused you, knowing that we also pain others – God most of all

Welcome + Love

The moon, the stars, the mountains and seas – the world is full of beauty and wonder.  Humanity, the crowning jewel of this allure, with intellect and the ability to do wondrous deeds, is also capable of violence, hatred, and apathy.  Within our own souls, we see the possibility of doing endless good, but war with our selfish desires and with painful pasts (and presents) that lead us in becoming something less than we should be.

All You Shining Stars was created by turtlequeen and twwk as our humble attempt to say, yes, there is a way to become more than we are.  Each post, subsequent to this one, will feature an original manga-style illustration, followed by words of encouragement and, we believe, wisdom, to encourage you on a journey away from the things that pull us down and toward an infinite love that cannot be earned – only received.

This blog will be thematic, as we present posts over a period of weeks or months, or perhaps through an entire season, based on many facets of a single idea, emotion, action, or truth.  The first of these will be that enigmatic but most real of concepts – love.

We hope that as you begin 2015, you’ll consider joining us as part of your journey.